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FROM "i HAVE A PROBLEM" TO "HOW I'M STRUCTURING THIS?"

In English we say, “I have a problem.” In Spanish: “Tengo un problema.” I had never noticed how easily ordinary language makes a problem sound like a thing—something already formed, something I possess. Five-Minute Manager disrupted that representation for me.

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5-Minute Manager Reflection

 

The following is from Hernan who lives

In Argentina and who has been part of my

Think Team for the 5 Minute Manager.

He attended the training last week via

Zoom and offers numerous insights about

The Problem-Solving Conversation

 

FROM “I HAVE A PROBLEM”

TO

“HOW AM I STRUCTURING THIS?”

 

In English we say, “I have a problem.” In Spanish: “Tengo un problema.”  I had never noticed how easily ordinary language makes a problem sound like a thing—something already formed, something I possess.  Five-Minute Manager disrupted that representation for me.

 

Michael kept returning to distinctions that sounded simple and then began reorganizing how I thought: an external condition is not the problem; the person is not the problem; a goal is not a result; and even the gap between where I am and where I want to be is not automatically the problem.  What exists outside is the condition.  The problem emerges in how I am thinking about that condition in relation to something I want.

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