THE ART OF WINNING THE INNER GAME

As a Neuro-Semantic Trainer— you go for the frames! Don’t you? I hope so. After all, this is the probably most fundamental principle in both NLP and especially in Neuro-Semantics: The person is never the problem; the frame is always the problem.

Wherever anyone (including you and me) has a problem, the problem is not the person’s history about what happened to that person at some time or place. The problem is not the person’s experiences with mom or dad or teacher or anyone else. The problem is always some frame of reference that the person holds in mind. And that meaning frame is the cause of the person’s disruptive emotions, interfering behaviors, and stuck state.

And when you know that— then you know that the other things are pseudo-causes that distracts the person and prevents him or her to find the true cause of things. You also know that the other things are symptoms of the frame system (the Matrix) that the person lives within. And when you know that— you know where the leverage point of change and transformation occurs! And now you can work effectively, easily, efficiently, and masterfully in bringing about positive and lasting change.