A Neuro-Semantic Difference from NLP Doing things to People / Facilitating People to Discover for Themselves

One of the things I constantly say at Coaching Mastery (Module III of Meta-Coaching) is that Meta-Coaches are to not do NLP on people. They are not do, or stop doing, things to people. An effective coach does not practice the old NLP habit of being the active agent who changes people (or tries to!). Coaching is completely different. Being a Neuro-Semanticist is different. Instead of doing things to people, if you truly believe that people have the required resources, you seek to facilitate them discovering that for themselves so that they become the change agent to themselves!