DETECTING THE BACKGROUND CONVERSATIONS

I wrote last week about coaching by meta-stating so that you can detect and deal with the thoughts in the back of the mind. This is one of the truly unique and special distinctions in Meta- Coaching that no other coaching system has. So as you develop your skills in this area of your client’s self-reflexive consciousness, you are able to get to the heart of things much, much, much quicker than anyone else. This saves time and trouble; it saves money and effort. It gives you an elegance in your coaching that’s unmatched by coaches from other schools.

And yet ... and yet even most Meta-Coaches are really weak in this area. Why? Because it is so easy to be seduced by content. It is so easy and seductive to get caught up in the primary and external details of the person’s story. And when that happens, then you as a coach can be hypnotized by your client’s details so that the client’s story sets the frames and you may feel as stuck, blocked, limited, and control as does the client. Not good.