DON’T COACH TO FEELINGS

“I just want a feeling!” That’s what clients often say. And when they do, it’s a trick. It’s a seduction aimed to throw you off. And yes, it is not that the clients are trying to trick you. It’s not that there is a conspiracy plot under foot that is trying to undermine Coaches or Meta- Coaches. It’s that our language and our way of thinking is a trick and can so easily deceive us.

Now undoubledly you have often heard it said in Coaching Mastery or read it in articles on the Meta-Coach’s egroup that, “A KPI can’t be a feeling.” If you haven’t before now, you have now! But do you know why a KPI cannot be a feeling? Would you like to know why?