SECRETIVE META-STATING IN YOUR COACHING

If you are a Meta-Coach, you meta-state. You learned to do that in APG or in Coaching Genius. Yet many of you only had that very brief 3-day introduction to the Meta-States Model. There is so much more to that Model than the 14 coaching patterns that you experienced. One facet of the Meta-States Model is that of qualifying or texturing of states. You heard about this in the idea of joyful learning or playful seriousness. The state you bring to the primary experience sets up a meta-state frame that qualifies and textures the state.

And as a Meta-Coach, I hope that you have the meta-state skill of doing that formally. That is, accessing a state of joy or playfulness, amplifying it so that you have enough energy to work with, then applying to the primary state of learning or being serious, then appropriating into the person’s life and analyzing to make sure it is ecological. Can you do that? Do you need to practice that at a MCF chapter meeting? Do you have a buddy-coach to work with on that? Do you need to revisit APG to keep refining that skill?