TAKERS AND GIVERS

I am not going to say, “There are two kinds of people ...” and then set up a polarization. But I will re-iterate a basic principle in Self-Actualization Psychology and say this, “There are two levels of experience regarding human needs. There is the dimension of the lower or deficiency needs and there is the dimension of the higher or abundance needs.” Those who live their lives predominantly at the D-needs feel deficient of the key requirements or ingredients and so strive to get what they need whether it is food, water, shelter, money, sex, safety, stability, control, love, affection, connection, bonding, recognition, dignity, etc. They feel needy, they are needy, and so they reach out to fulfil their needs.