SOLUTION BUILDING VIA SELF-REFLEXIVITY

Sometimes in the process of co-creating a solution with your client— sometimes things seem to go round and round in a circle. Your client describes what he wants to do to achieve an outcome, perhaps step up to a challenge. Yet in describing it and trying to do that, he then interprets it as making his sense of anxiety and fear worse. But he “knows” better, and so he tries harder, yet every time he acts in that state, he triggers even more his fearful and anxiety-increasing interpretations thereby making the problem worse. He is going in circles. His acting and interpreting is feeding off of each other sending him more and more into a downward spiral.